When some wives are ‘in the mood’, I can guarantee, she has already pondered some kind of mini fantasy about what will hopefully go down before she even talked to you. Sort of like she wrote a first draft in her head as she was folding the laundry.
She wants to be made to feel and believe that she is still sexy and beautiful and hot and a turn on to you, no matter what she’s got going on in the nude. And unless she’s especially lazy or incapable or is only in need of a quickie (possible occasionally), she wants her oven preheated and to climax at the same time or just before you. Preferably with the encounter lasting a decent and mutually acceptable amount of time. Wasn’t that put nicely? Did you watch American Pie when you were a kid? Kama Sutra, boys, with a grain of salt. Read up on that!
If it doesn’t go to script, her orgasm can delay. After all, unmet expectations may temporarily distract from the perfectly fantastic (or at least perfectly adequate) reality. Does that make sense? If your mission is to get her off before you, you may want to read her script. Read her body. Have a conversation while at a coffee shop about the topic. Find out what actually turns her on. And off. Bolster your ego, you can do it.
But you must remember, the mission, is to read HER script. Not fall back on your strategic, successful in past, ‘go to’ moves. Yes, they will work. Yes, in the end, the girl wants her orgasm after all, so the smart woman works with what she’s got. But. (Side note, try biting it) Brush your teeth and start making out. Like in the good ol’ days where it worked like a charm. Maybe learn / re-learn how to flirt.
If you would take the time to make her feel sexy, like you delight in the feel of her skin and kiss and caress, and just touching her makes you rock hard, that girl will be screaming your name long before the end of the night. More than once.
Be the man she knows you can be, and try out for the leading role in her script. Do it. Rock it. Earn the role. You will NOT regret it. And she will remember your value, and. Hers as well. (Yes that’s grammatically incorrect. It’s also incorrect on purpose. Read it again.) Show her unconditional, best lover in the whole world love. She will see your love, and raise you with respect. And maybe some funsy crazy role playing, or whatever floats both your boats!
In the same way husbands should LOVE their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of His body. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.
(Read the whole chapter, if you dare.)
Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.
Hallelujah!
Love,
Peach 🙂
p.s. I did a search, here are a few bible verses to chew on (This was the whole list the website gave me; don’t throw the baby out with the bath water, just use what’s useable to you).
Sex In Marriage (OpenBible.Info)
